Rate this: +33 -3 Anjali said: Jan 8, 2019 Everything has pros and cons, thanks for giving me a chance, I think both are good in their place it depends on the couple, how much trust, love can they give the relation. K or Australia, please do not email me asking how to have your nuptials arranged. In love marriage, both the partners pledge themselves to each other out of the love and not the societal obligation however they have defined rights and obligations towards one another. In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. Although arranged marriages may not be completely beneficial to the couples in some cases, it tends to have more advantages than disadvantages in the society today because it reduces the rate of divorce in societies, it brings about peace and harmony in families and it is a secure form of marriage.
But in arrange marriage no sacrifices, no violence, only peace full life. People choose the partners and then convey their choice to the parents. And the person is already known to us with whom we are going to spend our whole life. One of the strongest reasons for arranged marriages is finding a partner who is compatible ethnically, religiously, socially and culturally; in fact, this reason is the primary reason arranged marriages occur in some immigrant communities in Western countries. Now a days, it is one of the most exciting and interesting topic to discuss which marriage is better, love marriage or arranged marriage. My brother who works at a bank, and my sister in law who is a nurse, both are living in a society which models them to think and behave practically.
If one of you is acting silly or foolish, your family can put you in a headlock and emotionally blackmail you to your senses. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected. Introvert men and women find it difficult to express themselves or approach people from the opposite sex. Most modern-thinking single men and women repel the idea of their marriage pre-determined by others, not even their own parents. But arranged marriage has a different meaning. Certain professions such as a career with the military have unique challenges and unless your family is exposed to the profession you may not appreciate the advantages and disadvantages.
We thought we had outsmarted the traditional Indian marriage and found true love. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. No need to deal with dating pressures The challenge of finding someone who can fall in love with you and sign up to get married is difficult. Modern Indians who are exposed to diverse cultures through travel and media may wonder why marriages should be based on anything other than love? It is impossible to predict whether the union will be successful. Instead, they were taught how to love. They are nourished with care, love and affection from even when the parents are away. It is more in the nature of a marriage between the families and not individuals.
Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life. When you get old, arranged marriages are better! Waiting For Love Love takes a long time to develop. So love takes a backseat and is not a priority. I prefare love marriage then arrange marriage. This includes your married life.
As the parents like the person and both families agree to the arrangement, it does not matter whether you love the person or not. Of course, I agree to all of you who support Love Marriages and their reasons but I would like to support Arranged Marriages because, In love marriages, some of the parents may not agree them getting married. Due to this, the couples have low expectations of their spouses and sometimes their partners turn out to be amazing; this strengthens the foundation of the marriage. And after that, we will live life happily. Also lead a respectable life. Firstly, marriages are usually arranged either by the parents of the individuals, a close family member or a matchmaking agency. Throughout their journey of life.
Young Indians will find it difficult to digest the fact that parents are focussing on salary and profession along with caste and skin colour. Elders mutually decide about the give and take policy where daughter and money is exchanged for a highly qualified, well-settled groom. But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. But love marriage doesn't such as. Love Grows Many of the people who are married through arranged marriages do not begin their married life loving their partner, but this changes. Lastly, most arranged couples try to resolve their problems amicably to avoid embarrassment from their parents. The concept of Arranged marriage is discussed in length Arranged Marriage is considered as a wedlock between the families and not two persons.
The reasons why people go for it are different: to improve their social status, well-being, from considerations of economy, to get an official residential registration or elementary conveniences, everyday comfort, fear of loneliness and escape from it, striving for having regular and legal sexual relationships, a wish to have a nuclear family for a child, etc. Generations ago, brides and grooms would be arranged to be married by their families with little or no say. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. This leads to a lack of understanding between partners. Close To Your Roots Participating in an arranged marriage can make you feel much closer to your family, and your culture. This clearly shows that Indians still believe that their parents are the best people who can find a match for them. They learn about other cultures and their perception changes.